How to write a eulogy: structure, tips and an example

A eulogy is a tribute read at a memorial or funeral service that remembers the person and honours their life. This guide covers its structure and the points to keep in mind, with a short example.

What is a eulogy?

A eulogy is a spoken tribute that looks back on the person's life, character and the things they were loved for, offering comfort to the family. Keep the tone sincere and the length to a few minutes.

A simple structure

Open by saying who you are and naming the person; in the middle, tell their story through a few real memories and qualities; close with words of farewell and comfort for the family.

Tips

Show, don't tell — use specific memories. Get names and dates right, keep the tone dignified, and read it aloud once before the day.

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